Sunday, March 22, 2009

Hjem Away from Home

This here's my latest canvas piece--a custom request for a yellow, Danish version of the hot-pink, Swedish number I did a while back. ("Hjem" means "home.")

I'm popping in from the North Woods (Aroostook County, Maine!) to say hey--Mark and Jen are playing Rock Band in the living room, and Jen's shall-we-say passionate drumming is making it hard to think, so if this post makes no sense, blame her--and the cold medicine. Yup. I'm sick again, this time with a full-on, swollen-faced sinus misery. Sheesh.

The weekend has been fun if a bit complicated. Remember the "sad extended family stuff" I mentioned a couple of weeks back? Well, it amounted to visiting my parents in different houses for the first time yesterday. I wish I could explain what it was like--I bet many of you already know. I can say that it was sad, of course, but also, somehow, I'm talking more--and more intimately--with everyone in my family. It's like there was something between us, something unsaid that created a persistent silence for years, and now that barrier has evaporated. Lots of the things getting said are painful, but there's a new sense of connection and honestly that might, frankly, make us more of a family than we've ever been. That's my hope anyway.
On a lighter note, Jen (my best friend since 9th grade) is a brand new sewer, and I love her enthusiasm over all the bits and pieces. I love being the one who can point things out and answer her questions--a big surprise since 18 months ago a sewing machine seemed to me as complicated as a jet engine. We went to our favorite dingy, mess of a bargain basement store, where the saleswomen have amazing mile-high, Aqua Net bangs. They also have a mind-blowing selection of close-out fabrics at super-cheap prices. I got something very mod/Scandinavian that I'll take pictures of when I get home.

Until then, my dears, thanks again for all your wonderful recent comments. I feel very lucky.


11 comments:

Alice said...

wow, huge stuff is happening for you. Thanks for sharing so honestly - I really hope it does work out to make you more of a family. How brilliant to have a new sewing buddy though - isn't it great to be re-inspired seeing someone else's fresh enthusiasm?

Marlya said...

Wow- I love your felt pictures, they are so beautiful! I found your blog through your etsy shop. You are very talented!

Elissa said...

oh, hoping you are better soon! ellerie has claimed this hjem as hers as well.

blessings to you and your family, regardless of the circumstances. so much of life and art are intertwined joy, pain, renewal, freedom... your little houses are so much more than felt facades.... they say so much about all of our homes and lives and what is behind the pink walls and cheery flowers, if only because they leave the telling to us. thanks for sharing both your art and your life.

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Melissa Crowe said...

Elissa, my love--what a deeply kind thing for you to say. Thank you a million times.

Corinne said...

Hi Melissa,
Just wanted to let you know I've been thinkin' about you and hoping you are feeling better emotionally AND physically. Seems like you have really been challenged on both fronts lately. It's hard to share some of that in a place like this sometimes but I am glad you do.
Also, I'm really loving the yellow houses you have made lately. I'm not usually a huge fan of yellow but boy does it work when you use it!

orangepoppy said...

I am so sorry to hear about the family stuff, that is truly never easy to deal with. I hope things do continue to hold special, unplanned blessings in disguise.
I also hope you feel better again really soon..blah being sick doesn't help.

love the yellow it is adorable!

Elissa said...

well, you're welcome. kindred spirits are like that.

hoganfe said...

Wow you are so talented - love your art!
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Melissa Crowe said...

Ladies, I love you! Thanks for your encouragement, craft-wise and otherwise.

"Blog Artists" said...

My Grandparents lived in a yellow house in Danmark...love it!

Melissa Crowe said...

Thanks "Blog Artists"--how perfect!